I know! You didn’t think there was anymore to the sleep saga, did you?
I didn’t either. But there is more.
Phooey.
The good news is that up until 2 1/2 weeks ago, Nathan was actually sleeping really well, give or take the occasional crazy night or bad nap day.
Then he turned 8 months. And his nocturnal alter ego kicked in. Actually, it’s called the “8 month sleep regression”. I’m not making this up. It’s a thing. Google it. I did, and it even auto-finished my search for me. Wasn’t that nice?
Anyway, this sleep regression can actually happen at 8, 9 or 10 months (So should I be thankful we’re getting it over with now??) and is *generally* caused by the brain development and growth spurts typical for this age. So the little people just have a hard time sleeping at this age.
Um, WHY did no one warn me about this?! It was most definitely not in my favorite sleep book, Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child. Oh well. I guess I’m prepared for the next child.
(Note: That next child is not happening any time soon. And said next child had better be a good sleeper.)
But I suppose that this sleep regression thing is partially our fault. Since we had no idea what was going to be happening, we started weaning the Little Man off the woombie. I was really sad about this. I love love love the baby straight jacket woombie. But Little Man was rolling over onto his tummy more (though not in his sleep yet), and quite honestly, he was already in the biggest size available and would soon outgrow it. Little chunkers. It was time.
That first night we decided to go cold turkey and stuck him in his crib with both arms free. It was a disaster. It was a the-baby-has-been-screaming-for-over-an-hour-and-mom-is-a-complete-basketcase-we-are-never-doing-this-again type disaster. We have tried swaddling just one arm, but if you know why we got the woombie in the first place, you’ll know that that wasn’t working.
So back into the woombie he went, and we brainstormed another plan. I found a sewing pattern for a wearable blanket HERE. And I thought that I could close off one arm hole and create my own one-armed woombie for this transition. So that’s what I did. We have gone from the ‘baby blue giraffe’ to the ‘one-armed bandit’.
It is actually working really well for the transition. Though he will probably stay one-armed for several more weeks before we try to brave both arms free.
He didn’t want any more photos. He wanted out of the crib already, Mom!
So for the most part, the transition to one arm has gone really well. But mix that in with the 8 month sleep regression and it’s not so great. For 2 1/2 weeks Nathan screamed for at least an hour before going to sleep for the night. Sometimes it would happen right away, sometimes it would happen after he’d been asleep for 30-45 minutes (that was the worst – you think you’re home free and then 30 minutes later…it begins…) I couldn’t go in most of the time, as that would actually make it worse. He really just wanted to hang out with me the whole time. We tried all sorts of things. John would put him down for bed (that actually worked a few nights). I put him down to bed (usually didn’t work). We gave him a bottle right before putting him down (that helped somewhat). And then we’d let him cry (hated it, but most effective). But that usually took a good two hours before he’d go to sleep. Oof.
But we might be finally getting out of that phase. For the past three nights Nathan has gone to sleep without freaking out. And it’s been soooooooo wonderful. But then he decided to cry for an hour and a half before going to sleep for his morning nap today. And then only slept for 40 minutes. I’m going to lose my mind.
But before I do that, here are some cute pictures of Little Man and his phone while I was supposed to be folding the laundry.
"Wait, who are you texting?” “Taylor.” “Oh, okay…wait, is Taylor a boy or a girl?” “Does it matter?” “No, no, of course n- unless it’s a girl! ;)He had been totally kicking back with his phone on the pillow but he started wiggling around by the time I got my camera out. This one is pretty good too though. ;)
Well, I guess that’s it for now. Wish me luck!