Heavenly Father has a funny sense of humor sometimes. I didn't think that my summer/life could get any crazier this year.
He likes to prove me wrong. I shouldn't have said anything ;)
Today John was sustained and set apart as the new bishop of our ward. For those who might not know what I am talking about, our local church congregations are called wards, and the presiding leader of each ward is called the bishop. The church is operated by unpaid clergy, and we call these assignments to serve 'callings'. We also believe in continuing revelation, meaning that God still speaks to us
today. He speaks to us on a personal level, as well as to the leaders
of the church, inspiring them on to whom to give specific callings.
Two weeks ago we were asked to meet with the Stake President. (A group of wards in an area is called a stake and is presided over by a Stake President). Knowing that our current bishop was moving away I had a couple of guesses on what the meeting was about. Before we went to the meeting, we joked that Nathan was probably going to be asked to be the Stake Nursery Snack Coordinator. He'd be so good at that!
Then the call to be the bishop came. I was floored. I thought maybe it would be a stake level calling, or a counselor to the new bishop, but I hadn't
actually expected John to be asked to be the new bishop. It is such an enormous responsibility. John accepted the call, as I knew he would. Then I was asked if I could support him in his calling. I said yes. But I will be completely honest with you - with a toddler and a new baby coming in a month, it was (and still is) a leap of faith to say yes.
After our (rather emotional) meeting we came home, went about the rest of our Sunday, and tried to process what we had just agreed to. A feeling of peace came over me that afternoon, and I knew that this is what God wanted for the ward and for our family. That doesn't necessarily stop me from being slightly terrified, but at the end of last year we were thinking of moving out of state, closer to family. Somewhere during that time we both felt impressed that we needed to stay in the area, and so we found a new apartment in the area to accommodate our growing family. But since then I had wondered
why we needed to stay. I started wondering if it was for the baby, maybe we needed to stay and have the baby here with the financial/health benefits we receive from John's job. But now I think
this is why. The Lord already knew that our ward would need a new bishop and that He wanted John to be that new bishop.
So this weekend John was presented to the ward as the new bishop for the sustaining vote (when people receive new callings, their names are given to the ward and the members of the ward are called to sustain, or to support that person in the capacity in which they have been asked to serve) and the ward was unanimous in their support. Never have I been so grateful for the support of my ward. It was also Fast Sunday today (once a month, we come to church fasting for at least 2 meals that day and the money that we would have spent on those meals is donated to help the needy. During church that day members of the ward are invited to share their testimonies of the gospel and the Savior) and I was overwhelmed with the support given along with the wonderful testimonies. Up until now, John has been serving as the Young Men's president and it was really sweet of the several young men that came up and shared their testimonies and showed their support for John. It was also so wonderful to have my in-laws and my parents in town to be there as support (it also really helped to have so many people to keep Nathan entertained after John had to go sit up front!).
Afterwards, so many people came up and offered their love and support to me as well and I wish I could have articulated right at those moments how much that meant to me. My emotions were a little too close to the surface at that point. ;) So I hope some of them are reading this now. Thank you so much for your words of love, comfort, and support. Being a military brat, I have lived in many different wards in my lifetime, but I have never felt more at home than in this ward and never so strengthened by my ward family until today. Thank you doesn't really even begin to cover it.
I still don't really know how we're going to make everything work, but I
do know that God is aware of me and my family and that He knows what we need and will take care of us. It will take some getting used to our new normal but I am grateful for this opportunity to learn and grow and strengthen my relationship with my Savior.
But if you want to keep us in your prayers for the next couple of weeks, we'd really appreciate it. ;)